This is how we started threesome

My wife suggested it first and i was a bit horrified, but if you're secure in your relationship and open about what turns you on etc. but in no way wanting to ruin what you have, then talk about it openly. The more we talked I realised it wasn't as bad as it seemed and I wasn't threatened (always keep something 'special' just for the two of you). After quite some time we gave it a go and haven't looked back. All the time though being honest with each other. If either didn't want to continue then no probs. At the same time, you need to take care in finding the right guy. She now leaves that up to me and you can soon tell who's genuine. we always agree to meet somewhere public first of all and never come back to our place - unless wereally get to know someone we can trust. Also, lay some ground rules down which you both agree with first and make it clear to who ever you meet.