When my wife and I first got into the scene - it was spurred by fantasies and "what if's".
We decided to check out a swingers club (Cupids), and went there for a while... we actually went there for about 2 years and only ever had sex with each other, before we tried it with anyone else...
we have been on the swinging scene for many many years now, and my wife still gets very nervous each and every time we do anything - but there is no pressure and we always have a good time.
we have just started to try out dogging (first time on monday), we have had plenty out outdoor fun before... but just dipping our toes into this new experience.
My best advice is - my wife finally decided to try it as she wanted to experience fun with another woman, find out your partners fantasies and ask her if she wants to try them out. Make sure that you stress no pressure and that things can be stopped at any time. Making her comfortable is the only way to start.
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