I am associated with a club (as in I go there and advise the new owners on the best swingers sites etc so they can attract to the club genuine swingers who want a "classy" club and not the dives we have all seen) as most people know and have established one rule - we do not believe that people around the age of 19-20 have not yet really examined their sexuality and needs sufficiently to decide that they are ready to entertain the swinging scene as a viable option. We prefer to judge people on how they act and converse.
A great example of this is often found in the chat room when some ignorant unformed young person pm's one and says "hi hunny, hung like a donkey wanna f**k?" We all know the response these pms get often get in the chat room and personally I believe that the individuals need to grow up and learn the manners which often come with maturity.
I would therefore suggest that our young author allows herself to grow up and learn how to behave. There is nothing wrong with older swingers at least they can satisfy a woman and/or the husband or partner. They have the experience to pleasure the person they are with rather than a wham bam and pi** off situ.
No disrespect to young personals but at your age you should be experimenting with different guys/girls whichever you are into and not even looking towards the swing club scene unless you are mature enough to accept that swinging has been around a lot longer than you ave and the people therefore in the club scene are often gonna be a fair bit older than you are. Cos suprise suprise love old age comes to us all but genuine swingers grow older disgracefully....
Well thats my motto .... flirt and be disgraceful you are only on this earth but a short time so you should enjoy what you can while you can.
My pleasure to come across your blog and read it, keep posting.
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